• It's taken me quite awhile to learn this lesson. I now know it's true. Wisdom from Seth Godin: What “no” means I’m too busy I don’t trust you This isn’t on my list My boss won’t let me I’m afraid of moving this forward I’m not the person you think I am I don’t have the resources you think I do I’m not the kind of person that does things like this I don’t want to open the door to a long-term engagement Thinking about this will cause me to think about other things I just don’t want to deal with What it doesn’t mean:

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